Be Careful What You Wish For Bettina Arndt, a sex therapist in Queensland, Australia, put out a call for couples to come forward to volunteer for a study if they’ve kept detailed records of their sex lives. A man in Brisbane volunteered. He told Arndt that he knew exactly how much sex he’s had with his wife in the past eight years: tired of always being the one to initiate sex, he told his wife he’d never ask again, but would be happy to comply when she asked. Total sex in eight years: none. “It’s been so exciting to discover the process of keeping diaries helps people start to talk” about sex, she says. (Brisbane Courier-Mail) ...As a sex therapist, she should already know that the more someone talks about it, the less they’re having. Available in This is True: Book Collection Vol. 14